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The Not-So-Big Beach House

April 27, 2018 by Janice Wilson Stridick

The Not-So-Big Beach House

I wrote the blog,  "It's Just a House! Do something with it!!"  when Paul and I were getting ready for the first tenant in our not-so-big beach house that had been in my family for forty years. I was freaking out, quietly, in my way. Emotionally, I was pushed to the edge with the intention of making the house perfect, having happy tenants, and ensuring that nothing went wrong. And nothing did go wrong, at least nothing to do with the beach house or the tenants. But six days before our first … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Caregiving, Alice Steer Wilson, Blog, Cape May NJ, Death of a Parent, Family Caregivers, Historic Preservation, Jersey Shore Renewal, Memoir, Mothers and Daughters, Sisters, Women's Stories

It’s a beautiful holiday house, and we’d love to see you!

December 13, 2017 by Janice Wilson Stridick

It’s a beautiful holiday house, and we’d love to see you!

Last Friday evening, Paul and I opened the doors for our first holiday house tour to benefit the Mid-Atlantic Center for the Arts. Click this link for the virtual Lamplighter Tour of Ocean Alice's. It's not too late for the holiday house tour Don't worry that you missed it -- we're on a second tour Wednesday, December 27th. If you're anywhere near and would enjoy the winter sparkle of festive Cape May, get your tickets now -- they will sell out! Just click this link -- and update me, please. … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Alice Steer Wilson, Cape May NJ, Historic Preservation, Memoir, Peace Tagged With: #metoo, Alice Steer Wilson, Cape May, Connection, Gratitude, Historic Preservation, Janice Wilson Stridick, memoir, Mother-Daughter Way, mothers and daughters, openness, Winter Holiday

“It’s just a house! Do something with it!!”

June 25, 2017 by Janice Wilson Stridick

“It’s just a house! Do something with it!!”

  Last year, Paul and I bought the family beach house and these words from my mother's painting class keep me going. She charged her painting students with this and other pithy sayings when they were blocked. Today, the words seem prophetic. On the 15th anniversary of my mother’s death, my dear husband and I became sole owners of the Cape May house she adored. It’s a house that has served generations of our family and friends as a respite, a place of celebration, a center for art … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Historic Preservation, Alice Steer Wilson, Blog, Cape May NJ, Death of a Parent, Family Caregivers, Hoarding or Curating, Jersey Shore Renewal, Memoir, Mothers and Daughters, Women and Creativity, Women's Stories, Writing Tagged With: Alice Steer Wilson, Cape May, Emotional strength, Gratitude, Historic Preservation, memoir

First Father’s Day Without My Father

June 18, 2017 by Janice Wilson Stridick

First Father’s Day Without My Father

My father got things done. He applauded us when we got things done. So last week, when I arrived in Cape May, I vowed to restore two wicker chairs my father had cared for years ago. I thought it would be quick work, as the paint was peeling. I’d just shake them off, maybe use a wire brush, then coat them with the oil-based Cover Stain primer our friend Marc Shenfield (a certified wicker nut) recommended. Marc likes to get things done, and he had lovingly restored the rocker in the painting … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Alice Steer Wilson, Artist, Blog, Cape May NJ, Death of a Parent, Historic Preservation, Memoir, Peace

Can You Keep a Woman’s Secret?

March 8, 2017 by Janice Wilson Stridick

Can You Keep a Woman’s Secret?

Self-Preservation in a Time of Misogyny: While International Women's Day honors the known as well as the unknown stories of those who have long kept a woman's secret, I believe we honor ourselves when we honor our mothers and grandmothers, ancestors, and women of all races, creeds, and eras. Therefore, I'm not content to confine this activity to one day, or one month: it is a daily practice of awareness. You may recall that the academic study of Women's History began in the 1970s, during a … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Women and Creativity, Alice Steer Wilson, Artist, Blog, Forgiveness, Memoir, Mothers and Daughters, Women's History Month, Women's Stories

3 Ways to Play Your Edge in 2017

December 31, 2016 by Janice Wilson Stridick

3 Ways to Play Your Edge in 2017

If you pay attention to patterns, you know that clinging to that which fails to love you back is toxic;  you must play your edge if you want to love your life. When Carrie Fisher wrote Postcards from the Edge, she was playing her edge for all to see. Fisher shared a difficult mother-daughter journey that illuminated the path for others. She died suddenly on Tuesday, and the following day her mother died of heartbreak. Debbie Reynolds and Carrie Fisher gave an object lesson in how to play … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Alice Steer Wilson, Mothers and Daughters, Women and Creativity, Women's Stories, Writing

Does Generosity Cost You?

December 17, 2016 by Janice Wilson Stridick

Does Generosity Cost You?

If generosity is a good trait, why does it get tangled up in angst and confusion at this time of year? How can you maintain inner peace in a season of relentless advertising, competitive shopping and expensive gift-giving? I have been mulling over this question since we focused on the week six theme of generosity with my Mother-Daughter Way ONE goddesses last month. It was easier to manage week 6 during the pilot group last January when I tagged the focus as a week of … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Alice Steer Wilson, Blog, Death of a Parent, Family Caregivers, Mothers and Daughters, Peace, Women and Creativity, Women's Stories, Writing

Defying My Mother, Again

July 22, 2016 by Janice Wilson Stridick

Defying My Mother, Again

                    Today marks fifteen years since my mother's death. As I awoke this morning, I remembered her last words to me. And I will defy them. I'll tell you about that soon, but first I need to set up the event of losing my mother so you understand how tangled this mother-daughter way can become. For the last two decades of her life, I considered my mother to be my best friend. She was a passionate artist. … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Blog, Alice Steer Wilson, Artist, Cape May NJ, Historic Preservation, Memoir, Mothers and Daughters, Women's Stories

Transcendence in the Mother-Daughter Way

March 2, 2016 by Janice Wilson Stridick

Transcendence in the Mother-Daughter Way

    For the final week of the Mother-Daughter Way, we focus on transcendence. What does that mean in everyday terms? When my mother asked me to sit for this portrait, I resisted. I was busy. She was dying. I imagined having yet another unfinished portrait to remind me of the ways we couldn't sign off on each other. However, I agreed on the condition that I could write while she painted. I loved watching the way she rallied when she picked up a brush. As I recorded her … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Alice Steer Wilson, Blog, Mothers and Daughters, Women and Creativity, Women's Stories, Writing Tagged With: Alice Steer Wilson, Janice Wilson Stridick, The Mother-Daughter Way

A Powerful Combo: Emotional Strength & Vulnerability

February 4, 2016 by Janice Wilson Stridick

A Powerful Combo: Emotional Strength & Vulnerability

Emotional strength coupled with vulnerability makes a powerful combination. After my mother died, this self-portrait startled me when I found it among her works-in-progress. It showed her strength of character and her self-awareness as she faced her mortality. The portrait was a project my mother started after she survived her first battle with breast cancer, but she never signed it or left any description for provenance. I dated the work by the visual clue of her curly post-chemotherapy … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Alice Steer Wilson, Blog, Mothers and Daughters, Women's Stories Tagged With: Emotional strength, mother and daughter relationship, mothers and daughters

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